WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING ABOUT THE BREAKUP BLUEPRINT: AVOIDING THE DARKSIDE OF LOVE

“They say that “Breaking Up is Hard to Do,” but does it really have to be as devastating  as it often is? According to Kara Ockendon in her new course, The Break-Up Blueprint: Avoiding the Darkside of Love, the answer is NO… there are definitely ways for couples who are breaking up to “navigate the path of least destruction.”

I truly wish Kara’s course had been available back in the days when I was going through some pretty messy break-ups. I have absolutely no doubt that the “uncoupling” process would have been a lot less traumatic for everyone concerned, including the children involved and families on both sides, had at least one of us, and, ideally, both had access to the information and uncoupling skills Kara details. She has applied and integrated her own personal and professional knowledge to Katherine Woodward Thomas’ ground-breaking work on Conscious Uncoupling in a novel way, making her course more relevant to Attachment Theory, and delivered it in a very smooth and easy to understand way.

Highly recommended for anyone in a relationship. Even if you’re not Breaking Up.”

~ KERRIE, NANANGO, QLD (4 September 2024) ~

Are You Navigating a Break-Up or Divorce? Avoid Costly Mistakes and walk the path of Lest Destruction with Expert Guidance!

Did you know that the negative toll of high-conflict break-ups and divorce goes far beyond just spending $100,000s each in legal costs?

The impact of such extreme chronic stress can alter an adult's brain structure and cause lasting detrimental health impacts. Perhaps worse is the fact that it can detrimentally alter the brain development of children!

With the cost so high, parting ways peacefully has to be a priority. This course is an absolute must for anyone contemplating or moving through a break-up who desires a peaceful parting, whether it involves a divorce or otherwise.

In this four-module course, we explore why break-ups and divorces tend to bring out the worst in people and how you can avoid turning love into festering resentment, hate and conflict.

For those of you who may have already had that love deeply sour, this course will help you navigate those challenging feelings before they cause you irreparable harm and damage.

Led by Kara Ockendon (LLB (Honours), BAPsychSc, Certified Conscious Uncoupling Coach),over four weeks you will gain invaluable insight and practical tools that will save you from making costly mistakes as you navigate the uncharted post-separation waters. Avoidable mistakes could see you end up in a costly legal battle that deepens resentment and hate and imparts irreversible trauma on all involved.

You will also receive practical guidance on navigating Neurodiversity, Complex PTSD and Personality Disorders within relationship breakdowns.

You will leave well-resourced with practical steps to begin laying the foundations for you to part ways and separate your lives in a more conscious way, paving the path of least destruction.

What’s Included

  • 4 x Live online group trainings with Kara with an opportunity to ask questions (up to 90 minutes). Delivered weekly.

  • Written copy of each module with detailed referencing. Delivered weekly.

  • Video and audio recordings of all live trainings. Delivered weekly.

  • Bonus Guided Meditation Audio

  • Certificate of Completion for those who attend and participate in all four (4) live online group trainings (I cannot certify attendance for those who watch replays).

Who’s this Course For?

Developed from psychological theory and practically application of the research studies, The Break-Up Blueprint: Avoiding the Darkside of Love is for anyone, anywhere in the World who is contemplating or navigating a relationship breakdown or break-up.



Why Enrol in This Group Course?

- Deep Understanding: Gain a profound understanding of the psychological impacts of break-ups, including consciously navigating Neurodiversity, Complex PTSD and personality disorders within a relationship breakdown context.

- Practical Strategies: Learn actionable steps to navigate through break-ups and mitigate emotional turmoil, that will prime you to avoid costly mistakes as you navigate your separation.

- Expert Insights: Benefit from expert knowledge. Kara practised as a lawyer for 15 years and has over 10 years experience in family law. She further holds a bachelors degree in Psychological Science, is trauma informed and trained in the certified Conscious Uncoupling process.

- Transformative Learning: Equip yourself with the tools to transform your approach to relationships and break-ups, creating the foundations for you to navigate your separation and co-parenting (if you have children) in healthy, co-operative and positive ways that will see you avoid unnecessary stress and financial loss.

Next Intake

November 2024 - Dates to be confirmed - Register your interest now

What’s a Peaceful Parting is Worth

Standard Rate: $187

Concession and Hardship Discounts available, please enquire.

Professional Education Rates also available, please enquire.

More on What’s Covered

To learn more about the course content, reach out to Kara or read on below.

Disclaimer

I am not currently registered to practice law and do not hold a principal practicing certificate. This means that I cannot and will not be providing legal advice during this course. I am also not a qualified psychiatrist or psychologist and as such I cannot and will not be providing therapy or counselling. I cannot and will not provide any professional or financial advice whatsoever. Rather, I am a Coach and my services will be of education, guidance and coaching nature only.

Further where I make reference to legal processes and practices based upon my past experience, reference is made to the Australian Family Law Legal system in all States and Territories except for Western Australia.

Refund Policy

Please note that there are no refunds provided for this program for change of mind or unavailability to attend live sessions, given the sessions are recorded and delivered to participants. If you have any concerns as you are progressing through the program please contact Kara directly via karaockendon@soulhealing.au.

TESTIMONIALS

  • ~ Frank, Brisbane, Qld (18 July 2024) ~

    “I recently had the opportunity to receive the benefit of Kara’s Break-Up Blueprint Course: Avoiding the Dark Side of Love. My own separation hasn't exactly been smooth and I have been navigating the Court system with respect parenting matters for over 2 years.

    Looking back, if I had known about this course Kara provides, on the emotional rollercoaster of breakups and its impact - not just on us, but especially on the kids - I truly believe things could be different today.

    While I've done a lot of personal growth and self-development, Kara's course provided that missing piece: understanding the bigger picture of breakups. It helped me accept my situation a little better. If you are moving through a break-up or about to, I highly recommend Kara and this course!”

  • ~ Darren, Bega, NSW (23 July 2024) ~

    “I recently discovered Kara’s Avoiding the Dark Side of Love course. I wish I had the benefit of this course 6 years ago when I first separated from my son’s mother. I think it would have a big difference and even now I can see the things we are both doing wrong and that there are things I need to let go off. I am now aware that I am still in protect mode and guarded and this is impacting our parenting relationship and my capacity to form new long-term romantic partners. I can now move forward with fresh perspective.

    Fighting and destroying each other's piece of mind and financial wellbeing hurts all involved, including any children, and is not going to change the outcome. It’s not about winning, but moving forward and learning.”

  • ~ Kerrie, Nanango, Qld (4 Sept 2024) ~

    I truly wish Kara’s Avoiding the Dark Side of Love course had been available back in the days when I was going through some pretty messy break-ups. I have absolutely no doubt that the “uncoupling” process would have been a lot less traumatic for everyone concerned, including the children involved and families on both sides, had at least one of us, and, ideally, both had access to the information and uncoupling skills Kara details. She has applied and integrated her own personal and professional knowledge to Katherine Woodward Thomas’ groundbreaking work on Conscious Uncoupling in a novel way, making her course more relevant to Attachment Theory, and delivered it in a very smooth and easy to understand way.

    Highly recommended for anyone in a relationship. Even if you’re not Breaking Up.

  • ~ Stephanie, Moreton Bay, Qld (10 May 2024) ~

    “I recently embarked on a journey with Kara who guided me through steps of Conscious Uncoupling, and the experience was truly transformative. One of the most beneficial aspects of the program was its emphasis on self-discovery and personal growth. Kara provided unwavering support and encouragement throughout the process, creating a safe and nurturing space. I became conscious of my part in relationships and gained the confidence to shape my future despite an unpleasant relational experience. I recommend this program to anyone seeking transformation and healing in their relationships.”

  • ~ Felicty, North West Brisbane, Qld (6 March 2024) ~

    “I have just experienced the Conscious Uncoupling program with Kara and it has been life changing! Kara helped me take more ownership for my life, has liberated me from my past and helped me move towards the life I dream of. Kara is exceptionally professional (I assume from her legal days) and has a kind gentle manner which both helped steer my course for growth and resolution. The most profound change has been letting go of so much fear about moving on from a life that isn’t serving me and taking responsibility for it. Great job Kara, I highly recommend!!!.”

  • ~ CAROLYN, BRISBANE, QLD (9 MAY 2024) ~

    “I highly recommend Conscious Uncoupling and Kara to anyone going through a separation. I am so glad that I did this program with Kara, as I don’t believe I would have been able to hold true to my vision for a fair separation without her support. I began the process before the official separation, as I was emotionally overwhelmed and felt really stuck regarding what to do and prioritise to ensure an amicable outcome. Kara provided such a safe and professional space, allowing me to fully process my deeply buried emotions in a way I had never experienced before. I left each session with a sense of calm and clarity. I have continued to work with Kara post-Conscious Uncoupling, as I navigate the ongoing process of separation. And I am glad to say I have held true to my vision.”

More about The Break-Up Blueprint: Avoiding the Dark Side of Love

Are you ready to understand the deeper dynamics of break-ups? This comprehensive mini-course offers a profound journey into the intricacies of human relationships, providing you with the knowledge and tools to navigate the tumultuous waters of break-ups with grace and insight and minimised negative toll.

Week 1: Dive into the essence of love and attachment, the very building blocks of our relationships. Understand why these foundations are crucial to comprehending the intense emotions and reactions that arise during a break-up.

Week 2: Uncover the secrets of human nature and our innate responses to stress and conflict. This module delves into the primal reactions that shape our behaviour during relationship turmoil. Learn why we react the way we do.

Week 3: Gain valuable insights into why break-ups often bring out the worst in us. Explore the internal chaos and functional limitations that both you and your partner experience during this challenging time. Understand the psychological turmoil and emotional struggles that accompany break-ups, and learn how to navigate through them.

Week 4: In our final module, we provide practical steps to mitigate the negative impacts of break-ups. Learn how to manage the internal chaos and improve your functional capacity, both for yourself and your estranged partner. We also delve into the complexities of neurodiversity, complex PTSD, and personality disorders, offering strategies to handle these challenges in the context of relationship breakdowns.

Don’t let your break-up control your life. Take charge of your emotional and financial well-being with our expertly designed course. Enrol now and start your journey towards understanding and healing!